Why I Stopped Chasing Friends and Finally Found Loyal Friendships

little monthlong experiments — going quiet to see who I’d hear from, if anyone.

The results have been both disappointing and frustrating, yet reaffirming. There were some friends who didn’t make any contact (and I felt rejected as a result), others who got in touch with me.

All of my childhood fears about exclusion and rejection were acutely felt once continue reading …